On Sun, 8 Dec 2024 16:29:54 -0500, moviePig <nobody@nowhere.com>
wrote:
The issue would seem to be whether potential offense was purposely
ignored. E.g., blacks say "nigger" all the time, but *you* can't,
simply because you *know* you can't. So, Mrs. Goldstein won't be
offended when your 5-year-old wishes her a "Merry Christmas", or even
when *you* do if she thinks you're fresh off the boat...
"Nigger" is offensive irregardless of the ethnicity of the speaker. No
sane non-racist should think anybody gets a free pass on naughty
words.
If I knew Mrs Goldstein's name was Goldstein I certainly wouldn't say
"Merry Christmas" - but then I deliberately avoid awkwardness while recognizing I might occasionally put my foot in it out of ignorance.
On 12/9/2024 10:55 PM, The Horny Goat wrote:
On Sun, 8 Dec 2024 16:29:54 -0500, moviePig <nobody@nowhere.com>
wrote:
"Nigger" is offensive irregardless of the ethnicity of the speaker. No
sane non-racist should think anybody gets a free pass on naughty
words.
But, afaics, blacks speaking of blacks use 'nigger' play-offensively
...much like we might use "sonofabitch".
If I knew Mrs Goldstein's name was Goldstein I certainly wouldn't say
"Merry Christmas" - but then I deliberately avoid awkwardness while
recognizing I might occasionally put my foot in it out of ignorance.
Afaik, insult always involves intent. I never understand claims to the >contrary.
On Tue, 10 Dec 2024 16:25:26 -0500, moviePig <nobody@nowhere.com>
wrote:
On 12/9/2024 10:55 PM, The Horny Goat wrote:
On Sun, 8 Dec 2024 16:29:54 -0500, moviePig <nobody@nowhere.com>
wrote:
"Nigger" is offensive irregardless of the ethnicity of the speaker. No
sane non-racist should think anybody gets a free pass on naughty
words.
But, afaics, blacks speaking of blacks use 'nigger' play-offensively
...much like we might use "sonofabitch".
I know that but remain offended when I hear it.
And no question race of the speaker doesn't make it less racist. Sorry
- no "Get out of Jail Free" card from here. When I hear it I usually
say under my breath "stupid mother******"
If I knew Mrs Goldstein's name was Goldstein I certainly wouldn't say
"Merry Christmas" - but then I deliberately avoid awkwardness while
recognizing I might occasionally put my foot in it out of ignorance.
Afaik, insult always involves intent. I never understand claims to the
contrary.
So if I'm not intending to insult you it's no damage no foul? Uh - I
don't want to test that in Watts.
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